You never know

Sometimes people are busy, going through something bad, health issues which they don't want to discuss with you, next time when someone is not kind to you or give you time, stop complaining. Life is easy for you doesn't mean it is for everyone else around you.

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WhateverWorks · 36-40 Best Comment

Passing thoughts.. 🤔 Ehhh I’ve had a pretty shitty life up until recently. I’ve got empathy that everyone can be going through stuff (even terrible things ). Hardships aren’t justification for habitually treating others poorly though. The times I was not my ‘best self’ I still didn't expect other people to just.. endure me lol.. We make choices. Choices have consequences. My baggage isn’t more important than other people having self-respect and healthy boundaries.

SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F

@WhateverWorks sometimes I feel people just give excuse when they don't want to prioritize, my sister keeps saying she is busy whenever I ask to study something or read a book. So today I thought I should not assume everything is perfect in her life.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline it’s a good perspective to give you inner peace about it rather than letting the possibility make you feel crappy. 🤗

On the other hand, your sister shouldn’t be surprised if someday when she wants something from you you’re unavailable quite often.

SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F

@WhateverWorks I want her to study for her development, she has a job but I want her to learn trading as well, and read different kind of books for her personality development but she keeps giving excuses.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline well, can’t force people to want to be interested in something

SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F

@WhateverWorks yes, finally I understood but I know I will keep pushing 😁

being · 36-40, F

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline no stop pushing you're driving her away..

SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F

@being okay, I will stop.