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I Can Not Stand People With Rude Manners

There is this individual at my workplaces who complains about being single as a topic at work. He openly says how he watches porn on the daily. He never has had a girlfriend and asked out almost every person at my workplace. He told a lot of his coworkers he would ideally want a pron-star as a girlfriend. It is just annoying. Us as coworkers been giving him advice to lower his standards. He always is self doubting and says "no one will date me because I'm ugly and will die alone." Ugh it is so depressing working with this individual. A pron-star is not an ideal girlfriend and he needs to stop. I told him to go out of his comfort zone and go out more instead of being reserved. He been in a cycle of just doing this himself and not taking any person's advice. Any ideas on how I can tolerate with his behavior? I feel like I might RAGE a bit.

Also there was this woman at our workplace who thought he was cute. He lost his chance when brought the topic up. He says "not my type." So yeah... lower standards.
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ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
Good luck with that.. Not quite mature yet me thinks
@ozgirl512 I agree. It is so sad to think his starting relationship needs to be a hot individual.
ozgirl512 · 31-35, F
@CosplayMew he'll either figure it out or he won't ... Sad, yes... But not your concern to worry over .
GoldenWorm · 56-60, M
Sounds like TIME FOR HR.
@GoldenWorm what is HR
GoldenWorm · 56-60, M
@CosplayMew human resources ? The personnel dept who deal with wirk place problems.
SW-User
No one can change anyone! His intelligence is going behind the pornstar,just ignore him and enjoy your work and be joyful 🙂.
@SW-User thank you I always forget when repetition of behavior happens! I'll remember your words.
SW-User
Welcome! @CosplayMew
SW-User
Yes needs to live on real world.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Has anyone pointed out to him that talking about porn the way he does actually contributes to his single status? Or that complaining about being single does not attract people to him?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
He sure sounds like a douche. I’d be looking into noise canceling headphones.
@Fallflower I know! I sadly have to work with this guy and we can't talk about any other topic besides this. It is frustrating.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
I’d be finding ways to change the subject. If that still doesn’t work, be direct. “We’ve exhausted this subject and actually I don’t want to hear about your interest in porn anymore. Lets talk about something else”

I worked with someone who kept using the term “ripped them a new one” and it drove me nuts because I would picture it every time and it was gross. I finally just told him and he stopped. Not the same but I was kinda proud of myself @CosplayMew

 
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