One time I was having a conversation about being nice

Irregardless of the shit in life that you have been through. That is the true mark of bravery and courage. AND discipline

And then someone responded when you’re nice people take advantage of you

NO. When you lack boundaries and the inability to say no is when people take advantage of you. Always choose kindness but be stern with your boundaries. Just because someone is your friend or family member does it mean you owe them anything

You don’t owe someone something just because they ask

Just food for thought