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I really want to ask this girl to hang out after work

But I'm scared she'll say no. I'm so scared of rejection. Because she is the same girl I started sobbing in front of when I was upset about being rejected by an old friend. It would be so awkward if she said no.
I’m the type of person, if I want something I go for it. Otherwise you just spend forever pining over something you want, wondering about what-if’s, and beating yourself up overanalyzing everything.
I’d just toss something casual out and give her the choice to join with no pressure. What’s something she likes? Pick something you know she’d enjoy and just toss out “I’m going to ___ on ___. If you’d like to join me I think it would be a lot of fun” Or something like that. That way it’s not that awkward situation where you feel like you’re asking someone out on a date 🤣 Plus it doesn’t put them on the spot. I’ll usually do this, and then closer to time if they haven’t given a definite answer I’ll bring it up, “oh hey, did you want to go to ___?”
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@cherryxblossom oh that's a really good idea. That's exactly what I did.
@assemblingaknob Hope it went well for you!

 
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