I Am Afraid of Rejection

The Fear... i always wonder what makes a person change?
is it to get the attention of someone they like?
is it because they feel the need?
is it forced?
or simply change that had to come?

i always thought change was a great thing.
It meant someone realized their life had to move on.
Then i realized that the reason why people change
is because of rejection.

people buy the latest clothes to look cool because if they dont they are afraid people wont like them.
people listen to the newest music because its cool and if you dont your lame. AKA rejected.
people change to be liked, not because they see something wrong with themselves.
they simply change because thats what everyone else is doing.

"we fear rejection, want attention, crave affection and dream of perfection."

isnt that societies wish?
that everyone will be the same
no one will get rejected or hurt if everyone is the same barbie,fake,rich,stuck up person?

change is great if it is self promoted.
anything else than that is stupid.
rejection is a part of life.
not everyone will like you.
get over it
its life
stop acting like a bunch of boring people who act the same
different is great
be yourself
everybody else is taken