A few things about women I wish I had known when I was younger

In general:

1. Women are obsessed with interpersonal relationships

2. Women care more about people than things (so you will not find them obsessing over cars or having professional interest in the development of physical things)

3. Hypergamy

It's mindblowing to me that nobody taught me any of this and they are very simple concepts that I just never realized till my late 30s. Up till then I just assumed that women were just like men because that is what I was taught in school and in workplaces all over. Anyways that just is not true. The programming is different and that makes a world of difference.

Women are going to get mad at this post for whatever reason. Probably going to point out this one random friend of a friends cats owners wife who was a mechanic or astronaut.

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I knew you sounded familiar.
And here I thought you had ran away into the sunset.

You're not wrong.
Everyone has their motivations behind their choices. You might find similarities, but no absolutes.
I find it is difficult to justify or explain yourself into a life you want. And reasoning out why you don't have it with logic will only frustrate you. If you could logic out life and relationships it would be a lot easier than the ongoing reality that will always be.