If you have an avoidant personality thing going on

I'm talking about all types of relationships
Friendships , family , etc...not just s/o's

Oh my god I once went on a date and the girl said something about being avoidant and I was like yeah okay whatever. We spent a weekend at her place and arranged for her to visit me as well, while my parents were out of town (hence I told them and all that). Then she didn't show up, and when I asked her where she was, she started talking about her personality disorder. In the end she said: "I just thought you'd understand..." Like what lol. Why would I understand that? It felt more like it was always her plan to flake on me, because she was more interested in this whole disorder thing than she was in me. 😅

Yes! 😔

Do you encounter people with avoidant behaviors often?

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