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robertsnj · 56-60, M
I try to blend in as much as possible . however I still wear a covid mask which makes me stand out a bit right now.
I dont wear bright clothing, or walk fast, or make a lot of noise in public. I am average height for a man, average weight, soft spoken and do not really have mannerisms that would seem unique.
I think for most people who stand out in a crowd they are doing it intentionally and may have an "attention seeking" aspect to their personality. I find that aspect fascinating since I am the complete opposite and feels foreign to me attempt to intentionally seek attention.
I dont wear bright clothing, or walk fast, or make a lot of noise in public. I am average height for a man, average weight, soft spoken and do not really have mannerisms that would seem unique.
I think for most people who stand out in a crowd they are doing it intentionally and may have an "attention seeking" aspect to their personality. I find that aspect fascinating since I am the complete opposite and feels foreign to me attempt to intentionally seek attention.

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Do you also avoid staring at someone while conversing with them - - directly in their eyes for long stretches of time?
Do you also avoid staring at someone while conversing with them - - directly in their eyes for long stretches of time?
robertsnj · 56-60, M
@SW-User yeah that is a good point. I make eye contact. Outside of work I don't really have long conversations often. In business is important to have eye contact. Your seen as shady/ shifty if you are looking around.