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SW-User
No. And an optimist isn't "good".
There's dark and light to everything, neither are definable.
I hate the terms optimist/pessimist because it implies only one way or the other.
Say someone has a severe illness, some days you can be strong, some days you can't. And people will judge you like hell on your bad days, label you a pessimist and call you annoying. Game over.
The day people realize life involves both is a day of peace and balance.
There's dark and light to everything, neither are definable.
I hate the terms optimist/pessimist because it implies only one way or the other.
Say someone has a severe illness, some days you can be strong, some days you can't. And people will judge you like hell on your bad days, label you a pessimist and call you annoying. Game over.
The day people realize life involves both is a day of peace and balance.
being · 36-40, F
👆🏼 this. Balance is key..

SW-User
@being 🙏 Balance and I also think flow. Being able to ride the waves of your own reality as it goes up and down.
Life can hit hard.
Life can hit hard.
being · 36-40, F
@SW-User yes. I'm working with it lately..well, trying to! It takes some time.
I'm trying to see where I should flow along with the tide, and where I should get off the wave and ..tidy up stuff .
I'm trying to see where I should flow along with the tide, and where I should get off the wave and ..tidy up stuff .