@riseofthemachine Well, I give you right for the case if someone is doing things just because someone else is doing them and they think, that they're cool. But I think one can change if they really want to and wanting to change, working on yourself and achieving it has nothing to do with low self confidence. I've always been a shy, introverted person who was afraid of everything and now just after one year in the alpine club I'm outside climbing rocks and camping and meeting and talking to new poeple without even remembering why I was so afraid of it before. I don't think it would mean that I had high confidence if I would just settle with being a shy little mouse.