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I'm a terrible stalker and now he's going to find out...

For a long time I've admired one of my teachers and wished to be his daughter. Somehow I developed this theory that when I do what he does, I can become like him. So I googled him and found out he is a really good climber and active at our alpine club.
So I started climbing. One year has passed since, and I've really felt in love with climbing and been climbing as well outside practically all summer long.
I wrote my teacher one month ago because I need his help with something project related. And it came out, he knew I've been climbing and he said he's happy for me and he found it great.
I am going to meet him to talk about the project soon and I think he is going to ask me about climbing as well. I would love to talk with him about it.
But what should I tell him if he asks why I started climbing? I admire you, so I googled you and started climbing because I want to be like you?
JulianaDenise · 26-30, F
@riseofthemachine Well, I give you right for the case if someone is doing things just because someone else is doing them and they think, that they're cool. But I think one can change if they really want to and wanting to change, working on yourself and achieving it has nothing to do with low self confidence. I've always been a shy, introverted person who was afraid of everything and now just after one year in the alpine club I'm outside climbing rocks and camping and meeting and talking to new poeple without even remembering why I was so afraid of it before. I don't think it would mean that I had high confidence if I would just settle with being a shy little mouse.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
i stumbled on your profile online and saw you climbed, and thought Hey that looks fun
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
You can't be like anyone else but yourself .
It's impossible.
Some people try to imitate Jesus Christ and it's like telling a monkey to be a musician .
Its impossible.
And usually if your trying to be someone else i hate to tell you , your very insecure
SW-User
Tell him you're clinically insane and like climbing.

 
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