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Question - Honestly - both male and female

Females - if a male gets friendly with you do you think all they want off you is sexual desires while being friendly to you .
I was talking a woman before , just talking , and the minute we started to talking she brought her husband straight away in to the conversation as to say im taken and i wasn't even thinking that way .
Whats your view ?

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LadyJ · F

Women are naturally cautious because the majority of men here only talk to women because they are horny

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@LadyJ i don't think that way .
30 seconds of pleasure and years of pain 😂😂😂.
Do you get me now to 😂😂😂

LadyJ · F

@riseofthemachine Lol.yes i understand...i appreciate that not every man is the same

Carissimi · F

This. @LadyJ

Bexsy

I think a lot of times a woman is just making sure she's not giving off any signals. Trying to be upfront

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@Bexsy why the signals 😊

gdon39 · 46-50, M

I understand. To me it seems as if she was either socially awkward or feeling some superiority complex making sure you knew you couldn’t have that?!

In the course of a conversation it would be appropriate to bring up your relationship status but not to a point of declaration like that.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@gdon39 your right i never thought of that , she could be socially awkward. Thanks 😊

gdon39 · 46-50, M

@riseofthemachine I think it sounded more like a human you would rather not have started a conversation with honestly.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@gdon39 what do you mean . I dont get you 😊

AdaXI · 41-45, T

I'd of just said 'oh errrm riiiight, well look I'm not looking for a 3-sum anything but thank you for the offer' then just steered the conversation back on track, lolz!🤣

Seriously though like 99% of men are sex pests on here so women by nature are just cautious that way I guess.
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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@AdaXI 😂😂😂. Sex pests 😂😂😂

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@AdaXI Would you believe in all my life i never made the 1st move in a relationship with all the woman i was with .
They made the 1st move with sex . I left them make the 1st move just in case they be thinking that i be taken advantage of them .
They thank you later

AdaXI · 41-45, T

@riseofthemachine In the sense of coming on to me yeah I get you I usually leave the other person to make a first move. When it comes to what a guy thinks in his brain it usually starts with would I f%k them yes or no? And a guy will happily go out with a woman simply because she is attractive a women doesn't think like that, usually.

I mean offline fair enough men usually have a cap on this but online if a guy PMs me 2-3 messages they'll asking personal sh!t. Generally speaking a guy thinks more directly physical attraction equals sex than a women does.

Although don't get me wrong if a woman said that to me I would have to say something like 'jeez wasn't after a 3-sum or anything sweetheart' as in go and f%k yourself cause yes I'd find it very arrogant, but flip side it's far more likely a man will be a pest than the other way around so it's just one of those.
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Disguised · 56-60, M

I think noth sexes do this in an opening conversation with a new person especially if they know they will be working together ... its about establishing boundaries in a very natural way. Just saying "im married " seems kinda uneasy... saying "my wife and i like to take our three children out twice a week to the shooting range" says so much more

JustGoneNow ·

@Disguised yup. they are trained with guns. lol

Carazaa · F

Yes a man usually wouldn't talk to a woman he is not interested in romantically, yep sad truth. And most men think a woman is interested if she talks to him. Especially if she touches him. The truth is that most women have no thought of sex when the touch a man while talking. Men read women wrong, and women think men are too innocent. They are not innocent!

JustGoneNow ·

A lot of men are interested in only one thing when it comes to a woman. Not all, but a great many. And all it takes is one, the one we are talking to… and things can suddenly get very dangerous for us.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@JustGoneNow it can't be me cause im living all the way of in Ireland .
There's no fear of me .
I don't think that way .
This is a bit off the conversation but the same contents .
A friend said to me , she said if your digging a grave for someone else , dig yourself 2 and put yourself in cause you'd have no life .
I try to keep on the good side of life

JustGoneNow ·

@riseofthemachine I understand. People can be dangerous online too, even if it’s not physical. And that definitely doesn’t apply to every man, but as I said… it takes only one.

Soossie

It can happen that some men can be like that.... but that would not be my immediate take ...

My best friends are my men friends...

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@Soossie i like that answer 😊

Soossie

@riseofthemachine

Thank you...

Bodymindsoul

Yep I would take it as "I'm takin

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