Still cannot decide.
Something i really need to make a decision on.
She has asked if i will commit to being more than just friends.
My past failure is part of the reason holding me back from committing.
Edit -- I think some of you may have misunderstood, as my post did not reveal much.
She and me are not in a relationship currently.
She wants to be more than friends, and has asked if i would consider it. I hope that makes it clearer.
Should i go for it? Should i not? Should i tell her what is holding me back? 馃
To do or not to do. That is the tuna of all cans.
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She has asked if i will commit to being more than just friends.
My past failure is part of the reason holding me back from committing.
Edit -- I think some of you may have misunderstood, as my post did not reveal much.
She and me are not in a relationship currently.
She wants to be more than friends, and has asked if i would consider it. I hope that makes it clearer.
Should i go for it? Should i not? Should i tell her what is holding me back? 馃
To do or not to do. That is the tuna of all cans.
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thewindupbirdchronicles 路 41-45, M
FrozenWasteland 路 61-69, M
I could be way out of line here, but it seems to me that this might be a decision you two should make together. Like have a real conversation about.
If you are friends, and she has put it out there that she would like more, maybe it's ok for you to be open with her too. And for heaven's sake don't start making assumptions about what she's going to like or not or how she's going to feel. That's for her to decide, not you.
I wish you the best...
If you are friends, and she has put it out there that she would like more, maybe it's ok for you to be open with her too. And for heaven's sake don't start making assumptions about what she's going to like or not or how she's going to feel. That's for her to decide, not you.
I wish you the best...
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Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
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Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
@darkerlongings And this is why we cannot be friends 馃槀
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Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
@darkerlongings Because you rubbed it and rubbed it till a genie came out of the lamp.
Now poof the genie before it wrecks havoc 馃う Best friend my behind! 馃檮
Now poof the genie before it wrecks havoc 馃う Best friend my behind! 馃檮
CookieCrumbs 路 F
Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
@CookieCrumbs That is only part of what is holding me back. The other part, she will not like to hear i think.
CookieCrumbs 路 F
Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
@CookieCrumbs No, not about what i feel about her at all.
Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
@SophieSmiles One cannot just say that, without providing said magic ball 馃槫 Conjure one, immediately!
Jaydee7 路 31-35, M
@SophieSmiles I call scam. Scam scam scam
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Pinkstarburst 路 51-55, F
LRain 路
If you had to lose her as a friend anyway.. would you rather loose her as a platonic friend or as an ex? Because she wants more than friendship and if she cant get that from you then she will eventually get it from someone else.. so.. there鈥檚 that
iamonfire696 路 36-40, F
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