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Today i had to show up in office for a meeting and some important work that could not be done from home as it required a lot of coordination with other teams.

She was there too, as we are in the same team, and work very closely.
She approached me at lunch time and asked that we eat alone, just the two of us.
While i was trying to enjoy a delicious spicy tuna sandwich, she opened the topic of SW again. And told me to leave SW, like she did. I asked why and she said something along the lines of being worried for me, because of what happened to her while she was in SW.

So i assured her that i am fine, dont worry about me. She insisted i must leave SW.
And she invited me over to her place this weekend for dinner.

Edit - To make it less confusing -- She had something bad happen to her in SW before. I only found out about SW and joined some time after she left. She did tell me everything that happened to her, and i did post about it before, but i deleted that post.

I see her many times a week, with our work, and other activities. Now i am supposed to have dinner with her at her place too? Isnt she sick of seeing my face?
And no, she is not into me, i am sure of it, because she is not into asians even though we are both asians.

What i am confused about is the sudden interest in me. It is odd.
She does have high intelligence and an immaculate personal hygiene though, 2 qualities that i love absolutely.

Now i want to check infotunabot's posts. Should i go to her place for dinner this weekend?

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BabyLonia · F
It is all a bit weird tbh.

I think almost everyone here has had something "bad" happen to them on SW.
We have all been there, i gyess there are varying degrees of bad behaviours.

She chose to leave and that is her choice, you are not her, the chances are you will have a mix of good and bad experiences and it will be up to you how you deal with it.

If she asks, you could say to her that you didn't feel it and have left..... and that will stop her asking about it.

Also bear in mind that even though she has opened up to you it was just her side of events.
@BabyLonia this.
SW-User
@BabyLonia Makes sense. Thank you Otter 💜