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A shorty ranty venty post

Today i had to show up in office for a meeting and some important work that could not be done from home as it required a lot of coordination with other teams.

She was there too, as we are in the same team, and work very closely.
She approached me at lunch time and asked that we eat alone, just the two of us.
While i was trying to enjoy a delicious spicy tuna sandwich, she opened the topic of SW again. And told me to leave SW, like she did. I asked why and she said something along the lines of being worried for me, because of what happened to her while she was in SW.

So i assured her that i am fine, dont worry about me. She insisted i must leave SW.
And she invited me over to her place this weekend for dinner.

Edit - To make it less confusing -- She had something bad happen to her in SW before. I only found out about SW and joined some time after she left. She did tell me everything that happened to her, and i did post about it before, but i deleted that post.

I see her many times a week, with our work, and other activities. Now i am supposed to have dinner with her at her place too? Isnt she sick of seeing my face?
And no, she is not into me, i am sure of it, because she is not into asians even though we are both asians.

What i am confused about is the sudden interest in me. It is odd.
She does have high intelligence and an immaculate personal hygiene though, 2 qualities that i love absolutely.

Now i want to check infotunabot's posts. Should i go to her place for dinner this weekend?

deathfairy · Best Comment
this is not a short post.
this is my true form, so i rarely wear my skin. @SW-User

you are pretty beautiful too 😻@JustGoneNow
@deathfairy ty, pretty girl. maybe I can be your gay crush. 😉
@deathfairy you’re so cute. you always make me smile. ty 🖤

How does she know about SW? I think I missed the whole first chapter of this story. Also, Asians just have good hygiene in general I think. I saw a video on them not having sweat glands so she’s not doing much with that and most Asians have high intelligence. If you’re not interested in dating her or getting to know her well and you have no interest in having dinner with her. Just tell her you’re going to be busy. 🤷‍♀️ you don’t owe her an explanation of why and you’re not obligated to hangout with your coworkers after work even if you’ve known her for years.
@SW-User I’m missing too much detail to add much input to this post. 🤔
SW-User
@Stark Lol btw i am asian, and i can assure you, we have sweat glands 🤣 🤣
@SW-User it’s not all Asians but some don’t have sweat glands or I guess have smaller sweat glands 🤷‍♀️? Causing them to have less body odor than the average
I don’t remember much about it since I saw that video forever ago. But I’ll find the details and post it later
SW-User
I’m so confused - who is she? Ruler of the free world?
SW-User
@SW-User She had something bad happen to her in SW before. I have edited it into the post now :)
My two cents are you have two independent issues here - why does she want you to leave and the dynamic of your relationship. Insisting you leave is extreme, and there's no exceptions to that. As to how you feel about her, it's perhaps more cloudy than you want to admit. Hence you question why she isn't sick of you and list reasons you can't be into her, like you're trying to convince yourself of this
@SW-User I cannot confirm or deny since then it would be no secret 😉
SW-User
@BeefySenpie But you are right. She is way over my league man. She is super pretty, like out of this world pretty. I just dont believe for even one second she can show interest in me. It's so odd that she would.
@SW-User There are only leagues in sports, so don't cause yourself paralysis through analysis
Well, im unsure about the back story...but every site has it's good and bad. Telling someone to stay away from somewhere just because of their personal experiences is a little unfair in my opinion. And possibly..a little controlling?? Again...im unsure of the back story, so i apologize if out of line for saying that
SW-User
@Bexsy No need to apologise 💜 Perhaps you're right, it is a bit controlling. Thank you, i did not see it as that, coz i am usually a bit blur and dumb about these things. 💜
@SW-User not a bit dumb at all. Sometimes people just need an outside view
deadgerbil · 26-30
Hopefully she eventually opens up about what exactly happened to her. I'm pretty curious about what would cause her to be so cryptic about this
SW-User
@deadgerbil She did open up about what happened. I posted about it before, but i deleted it because it is too vile and may affect some people badly mentally.
deadgerbil · 26-30
@SW-User ah, I didn't see it then. Others were curious too so I thought it was never revealed
SW-User
@deadgerbil Yeah my bad, i make bad posts lol. I should have made it clear in this post, sorry
SW-User
I don’t blame her for leaving this place. I should have long ago and never came back. Haha, but I’m serious. I was attacked viciously by a few members here.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
It seems there are things, pictures or posts, that she doesn’t want you to run across on here. Sharing racy pics and info is fun, but there’s a downside..
TexChik · F
The first thing that comes to mind is that she is desperate for you not to find out about who she was here.
SW-User
@TexChik That is indeed a possibility! Thank you.
@TexChik yup. yup. the true us without the facade of real life.
GunFinger · F
That could be reverse psychology. She might still be here and just wants to see your peen.
SW-User
@GunFinger Lmfao 🤣 🤣
GunFinger · F
@SW-User but yeah tbh if you're uncomfortable just say no. It's impossible that the topic of conversation over dinner is only SW. It's quite sus.
It is all a bit weird tbh.

I think almost everyone here has had something "bad" happen to them on SW.
We have all been there, i gyess there are varying degrees of bad behaviours.

She chose to leave and that is her choice, you are not her, the chances are you will have a mix of good and bad experiences and it will be up to you how you deal with it.

If she asks, you could say to her that you didn't feel it and have left..... and that will stop her asking about it.

Also bear in mind that even though she has opened up to you it was just her side of events.
SW-User
@InOtterWords Makes sense. Thank you Otter 💜
Carissimi · F
Did you accept the invitation?
SW-User
@Carissimi Not yet. Still thinking.
Carissimi · F
Only go, if you want to, or else I’d politely decline. I suspect she wants to convince you some more about SW. @SW-User
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
Idk, she seems a bit weird about that SW thing.
I got nothing. Sorry. We are kind of a mess here.
she's so shady around the topic, now im curious too
MellyMel22 · F
What does she have against us 🤨
SW-User
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I remember your first post about it. Maybe there’s something about her or how she acted here that she doesn’t want you to find out. Maybe that’s why she is trying to get you to leave?
@iamonfire696 this is a good point. Not to say people aren’t capable of having our best interest at heart, but most people are mostly concerned about looking out for themselves. And if she’s so driven on convincing an adult about not using a website then it possibly has more to do with her than him.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Stark that’s what I am thinking. If she really had that bad of an experience then why not just lay it all out there and then he can decide. You can have a bad experience on any online setting and it’s not the norm.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 She did lay it all out. I think you did not see that post, you missed it. But i've already edited this post to reflect that. @Stark
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I read it and commented on it. She’s already mentioned it and you didn’t leave. I am wondering if there is something she’s trying to hide about her time here that she’s worried about you finding out…
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User It doesn’t seem like you are interested in being more than just friends. Are you worried this will make things awkward at work?
SW-User
@iamonfire696 Yes that is part of it. The other part is, she was never into asians, so if she is deciding to see if she wants to "settle" for me, i am not into that
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I don’t blame you at all. You should give your time to someone that’s not looking to settle 💜

 
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