Is this asking a woman to cheat! If she'd like to join me down at the beach on Friday?

We both have the day off.
She is married. 15 yrs!
And the beach is clothing optional.
I'm not looking for fun in the sands. I just trust her and enjoy working with her.
Or would that be just breaking so many levels of trusts between friends?

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GrinNude · 61-69, C

Every situation is different. What are your motives? When you invite her, are you comfortable telling her your real motive? There's your answer.

cycleman · 61-69, M

@GrinNude To have a friend to talk with!
And I take I am not "inviting"
She asked if I care to cycle to some part of town. I said "no, cuz my time is on the beach now."
And there I bite my tongue from asking if she'd like to join me.

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@cycleman Keep biting. Bite harder if you need to. Her inviting you to bicycle for exercise is totally different than you inviting her to join you at a clothing optional beach. Treat her with respect. Back off. She's married. Are you too shy to find a date who is single? There are so many single lonely women. Talk to one. 😊 Birdie

cycleman · 61-69, M

@GrinNude Yes I am. I am scared shitless to ask a woman out.

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@cycleman Stop smoking weed and live life to the fullest. 😊 Birdie

cycleman · 61-69, M

@GrinNude I don't smoke

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@cycleman Then stop self-pleasuring and start sharing pleasures with one of the many single lonely horny women that you pass by everyday. LOL 😊 Birdie

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@cycleman reach out. Talk to a single lonely woman. What do you have to lose? Just do it. And report back to me. Pronto. And stop jerking off so much. LOL 😊 Birdie