Seeking genuine advice or guidance

Recently my husband and I have stepped into a bit of a new world. Primarily around his desire for me to be with other men.

I was with a guy he introduced me to from his gym and the thought or idea of adding another guy to join me and the guy from my husband’s gym to play together sometime

While no real plans have been established since the topic came up I wanted to learn from others who have participated in a threesome. I’m not sure this will happen for certain but I figured it could be good to better understand something like this before fully considering.

Sorry for the bit of a rambling message and would appreciate any advice. And please reserve your judgment, I’ve already received some for being with another man at my husband’s desire

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AnneHoney · 41-45, F

We also wandered through the possibilities before we took the plunge. It turned out great for us. But my suggestion is don’t go there unless you are both 100% sure it’s what you want. That your husband actually wants you to enjoy it, maybe even more than sex with him. We started with playing with other couples. Mostly hand jobs and getting felt up. When we declined to try a MFM threesome it went all the way and when I let go and just concentrated on his cock in me and not what my husband might be thinking it turned out great. So much so that the idea of more than 2 guys fucking me was the new hot topic. Which brought up the who question. I had fantasies about sex with my husbands brother but figured he. Would not be comfortable with that option. When he suggested his brother I had to limit my enthusiasm. But it turned out great and led to several more combinations including one with a bi very horny and well hung young man who gave my husband a great bj while brother in law fucked me. It doesn’t always turn out great but as long as you both realize and are careful with those that join in, it can be great.