Fear can be ...

@Northwest True, but I'm speaking more of the fear in my sub's eyes-- or allowing a Dom to see the fear in mine.

@Spacetripper Hmm. Wouldn't a sub know this is safe? As in, they may get smacked a bit, but they don't fear for their lives?

No experience here, so...

@Northwest Depends on the Dominant. You can always ask the Community for reviews of the person. Remember: NOTHING is always "safe."

@Spacetripper I was thinking more like "I will only do this with someone I fully trust", but that's a lot of trust.

My experience is limited.

@Northwest Can you ever really know anyone? You can exercise due diligence but scenes often don't go as directed.

I see you're from around U C at Berkley....I was born in Kaiser-Permanente and my godfather held the chair in Philisophy at U C Cal right after WWII. Hey, neighbor.

@Spacetripper bound and gagged especially.

@Spacetripper You mean Oakland, assuming by your listed age? My first long term girlfriend was born in the Kaiser-Permanente in San Francisco. :-) You recognized the little clue in my profile. 👍

I make it home as often as I can, but no longer recognize most of he places around my former home.

@Northwest Yes, Oakland. It's a right mess now.

@Spacetripper
Did the Mayor end up in jail?