Hey, i need ideeas for a self spanking

I am relatively new to this whole topic and I would like to try it. Lately I have seen that I have made some mistakes in everyday life and I would like to punish myself but im not sure how. It will be a self spanking but i dont know what position to saty in or what implements should i use, to be honest i dont even know how to use an implement since i never did this before. Any ideeas ? Thank you ❤️

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ArishMell · 70-79, M

It's not easy to "spank" yourself, and using it as some sort of disciplinary way is not really convincing, possibly even self-defeating.

First, you would better separating the "mistakes" - itself a wrong reason for "punishment" - from the self-flagellation. Punishment is for wilful wrong-doing, not accidental mistakes. Deal with the mistakes constructively, including seeing how to avoid making them.

Now ask yourself, why the self "spanking". Treat that as an activity for its own ends - the urge, sensations, erotic appeal or whatever it is for you. Hitting yourself with something is not very easy and self-limiting, so really you'd need experiment with positions and implements. Note that you are more likely to bruise yourself with a rigid implement, though you'd need strike yourself quite hard to cause that sort of injury.

Happy to talk about it in PMs if you like.