I Know Someone That Needs a Good Spanking

Why not? @SW-User

@BrattyMel he's very gentle with me
like I could break

I am sure the gentleness is nice when needed/wanted, but have you talked to him about it?@SW-User

@SW-User My husband was like that when we started our Domestic Discipline. We were married 20 years before trying something new. For the last 6 years we've been doing this. I'll tell you what... he didn't like hurting me but a LOT of communication and blow jobs (because, as I told him, his dominance makes me horny!) he started to get into it and even make implements to spank me with!!!

Perfect wife. @realrare

I asked but he couldn't

Awe, I am sorry he is unable to give you what you need. How long have you two been doing this?

@SW-User Awwww.... well, if it is important to you I'd keep trying. I used to find stories of couples that were similar to us and read them to him. Also, I'd play games with it.... tell him to see how much I can take by him spanking me harder! One time I had a HUGE black bruise on my butt and he was horrified! I regarded it like a trophy and told him I thought it was sexy as hell! I also informed him that the more spankings I got the less and less I'd bruise. Like I said, lots of communication. I wanted a man to look up to and respect. I didn't want him to just take my mouthing off with a grain of salt. And now, with him so ill I'm grateful that we are more comfortable in our roles. I feel loved and cherished.

When he couldn't, I just gave up on it
I'm glad that the sx isn't so gentle anymore lol..that is a plus

@SW-User Oh, I love rough sex! Good for you! lol. If he has THAT in him, I'm sure you can work the rest up to a more disciplinary type situation. lol Baby steps, and don't compare your relationship to others. I used to do that and I was always feeling like I wasn't getting enough. Now I'm so happy with what I've had!!! And I posted a story yesterday about a spanking he had given me for mouthing off... so it's still going on strong!