I Cry When I Get Spanked

It's almost what I hate most, the fact that I can't control myself and I'm crying like a little girl. I try not to but I always fail

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sarahxjayne · F

that must have taken courage to write that Kim. If it helps at all I was still spanked in my teens and I always cried too. I understand now that the point wasn't just to give me a sore bottom but to reduce me to tears so I understood what I had done wrong.

MaryJanine · 61-69, F

I'm a little confused. Like all small kids, I cried whenever I was spanked, but why does "reducing us to tears" make us "understood what we did (done) wrong"?

Spanking is/was a painful affair overall. How many parents (and I'm sure there are many) threaten during the spanking or just after, "I'll give you something to cry for!"? The spanking person doesn't always deliver the punishment on the spot, but discovers the misdeed a little later, and THEN the sore bottom is given out. There are times kids don't get spanked right away, and they think that they got away with something - that is, until the parent or other grownup discovers what was done/said. This happened to me a few times, and the spanking I got later was twice as hard.

nickymims · 18-21, F

@sarahxjayne My parents make sure I know that I misbehaved when the spanking is done.