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Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
No if spanking led to a spanking fetish most of us would have one. In someone with a spanking fetish, something else set them up to have a fetish and it settled on spanking but could have been something else.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
The fetish may have been begun at a crucial time in their development or coincided with sexual development somehow, thus it turns them on in a way it doesn't turn you and I on.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@CoffeeFirst I don't think Freud was too far off when the said something, usually some kind of trauma is involved that interrupts the normal psychosexual development stages and you end up with un natural attachments. What ever it is, it happens early in life and separate from what you end up fetishing over.
https://similarworlds.com/2449251-I-Am-Facinated-By-Human-Behavior/428934-What-causes-all-these-fetishes-It-makes-no-sense
https://similarworlds.com/2449251-I-Am-Facinated-By-Human-Behavior/428934-What-causes-all-these-fetishes-It-makes-no-sense
jmd53 · 70-79, M
@Subsumedpat I think that we take something unpleasant like a spanking and sexualize it and it becomes pleasant.
jmd53 · 70-79, M
@Subsumedpat I think that a spanking fetish is a pretty harmless kink. Practiced between adults it is fine.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@jmd53 As much as I've experienced spanking, which is not a whole lot, but enough to have an opinion, I do not enjoy it beyond a few slaps. I can't say I find it pleasant! 😵
canadarm · M
@Subsumedpat I think there is a natural human fascination of punishment; as evidenced by attendance of crowds at pillories and even gallows.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@CoffeeFirst I have done it as part of some adult role play but it was not severe, I am not nuts over it but the overall role play was fun.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@canadarm I think you are on to something there , does seem to a fascination over punishment and discipline.