How do you address a sexless marriage?

Hello, marriage!

As permission to go outside your marriage for your needs.

Then he shouldn't have any objections to you having partners on the side.

Try becoming a hotwife

Get a lover for the physical side and enjoy the emotional side you have already.

I think my wife wishes I put in a little less effort. But sex is one of my favorite things. If we didn’t go all the way at least twice a week there might’ve been a problem. And she really liked me touching her tits daily.

that's a tough one, it depends on how much he means to you and how much you mean to him

Maybe talk to him about having other partners.

Imagine you're a waitress, i come in and order a coffee, its like $2...... i sit there and am counting cash. Even what can be seen theres easily a few thousand dollars.

When i go to leave i hand you a dollar and tell you that you deserve a $50 tip.

Explain this to your husband.

If you deserve it, and i could give it to you....yet dont, there's a discrepancy

There has to be more to it than that. Him saying he doesn't want to put in the effort is the symptom, not the cause. WHY doesn't he want to put in the effort? You're an attractive woman and he's chosen you as his life partner in marriage. He owes it to you to show you physical affection and gratification. Is he stressed about something outside of the relationship? Work? Finances? Those stresses can cause a loss of libido.

Guess someone else would be happy to put in the work.

Love and sex are integral part of marriage. If one partner does not need sex and other needs it, then the dialog needs to be different.
If you both agree there may be other avenues for you to explore if you want to continue with this married life. But there definitely needs to be an agreement between the 2 of you.

It's difficult and it goes the other way as well.

Another question if you’re ready and willing, what effort does he have to put it?