Every guy I had sex with couldn't get me to climax. Is something wrong with me?

In my younger and much healthier days I had a technique, chew a hot cinnamon candy, like a hot tamale, give the opening a quick blow, then a taste for a bit, then give the bean a tongue flick and lip suck, let my finger do a bit of exploring, and somewhere by then my partner would be glazing my face and nearly crushing my head with her thighs.