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Every guy I had sex with couldn't get me to climax. Is something wrong with me?

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hunkalove · 70-79, M
Did they suck your love button whilst humming the "Star-Spangled Banner"?
Wireman · 31-35, M
Choose partners who will ask if they are not sure. They will help to enjoy the date.
Next time be on top
Panamared · 70-79, M
Maybe your clit needs attention while you have sex
@Panamared it helps if the guy kind of lies heavy with full pelvic contact(much like missionary would give) and thrusts and grinds in a kind of circular rhythm and they're matched. Tends to do the trick for clitoral stimulation. 🤷🏾
Rabbit420 · 70-79, M
I'm guessing that you've been with a lot of selfish men that don't spend enough time with foreplay and getting you good and wet and aroused. I always like to make sure that my woman has at least one or more orgasms before I get mine!!!!
lissah · 36-40, F
Not something wrong with you but with him. Real men ALWAYS get their woman off. Its not all that hard to figure out where the clit is.
VeraSara · 41-45, F
@lissah That sexy gif :D
lissah · 36-40, F
@VeraSara oh. I dont remember. I've had it a long time.
VeraSara · 41-45, F
@lissah Cool
ididntknow · 56-60, M
Get him to use his fingers mouth and tongue before slipping inside you
constance · 70-79, T
Not at all. Are you able to have them by yourself or with another woman?
Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F
@constance by myself only.
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
If sex can’t do it the mouth and tongue can
In my younger and much healthier days I had a technique, chew a hot cinnamon candy, like a hot tamale, give the opening a quick blow, then a taste for a bit, then give the bean a tongue flick and lip suck, let my finger do a bit of exploring, and somewhere by then my partner would be glazing my face and nearly crushing my head with her thighs.
pdockal · 56-60, M
pdockal · 56-60, M
Check your DMs
Northwest · M
Is something wrong with me?

Only you would know.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Probably they don’t know how to squeeze lemon properly 🤪
ninalanyon · 70-79, T
My personal experience is that it's not always that the man isn't trying and it's almost certainly not the case that there is something wrong with you. What's lacking is usually communication.

Did you try explaining to them what they needed to do? Or even just pointing out that it wasn't satisfying?

If not then perhaps that is what is 'wrong'.
Laralemonsqueeze · 36-40, F
@ninalanyon I'll try thay and see😀
ninalanyon · 70-79, T
@NativePortlander1970 Not blaming anyone. Not every man knows how to satisfy a woman, or another man for that matter. There are women who are not particularly expert too.. But if both parties can get over the embarrassment of not being perfect and actually talk to each other about it then progress might be made.
@ninalanyon If a man cannot get his woman off, she should leave his ass, I may not be gifted, but by fuck I ALWAYS made my partner satisfied and smiling.
faery · F
Not necessarily but I'm of the philosophy that I'm responsible for my own, with or without a man. They can be used as a tool, js
Maybe you're in your head during the time and can't let go and enjoy it or they just sucked. Sometimes it's hard to find people that can do us better than we can 🤷🏾 especially if they learn everything they know from porn or something
Pretzel · 70-79, M
I'm a guy so I can't speak from the female perspective (whoa, how's that for a starter?)

From what I understand only the bottom third of the vagina has nerve endings. And not all women can get off from their g-spot.

The clitoris is a common denominator in the female orgasm - what a magical body part!

Can I guy get you off orally or with his fingers? How about with a toy?

Can you rub your clit during sex?

Find yourself a male partner that you can actually talk to and isn't going to be offended by your desire to climax with him - THAT'S the best way to enjoy sex.
Softy1 · M
You simply wasn’t stimulated enough

 
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