What was your first time like?

MommaBear · 2025-07-07T16:55:13-04:00

Sex - What was your first time like? (69 replies).

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exexec · 70-79, C

Quick. We had been dating almost 8 years and lots of everything except sex. She had sex with others, but I was waiting. Our first time was our wedding night. I didn't last 30 seconds. The next time that night was better.

MommaBear · 22-25, F

@exexec 8 years with someone without sex? Oh no I couldn’t do that… was there any loopholes like oral? Or just nothing?

exexec · 70-79, C

@MommaBear No oral. There were mutual hand jobs. I loved her too much to risk getting her pregnant. This was when The Pill was still a bit experimental.

MommaBear · 22-25, F

@exexec but she had sex with others during your relationship? What’s the difference then?

exexec · 70-79, C

@MommaBear I didn't know she was having sex with others.

MommaBear · 22-25, F

@exexec oh

exexec · 70-79, C

@MommaBear I suspected it, but she told me she was only doing the same thing with them that she was doing with me. She finally confessed after we were married.