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How many times a week should a couple have sex?

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Once a week
2-3 times a week
3-5 times a week
Everyday
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I’m asking because for the first few months in my relationship, he was away for weeks at a time for work
And we would only see each other a few times a month.

Now that he’s been working local, he goes out of his way to have sex
Me personally, I think it’s perfectly normal to do it a few times a week but he’s been wanting it like everyday and I’m like damn papi chill 😅

It also shouldn’t be something that’s planned or expected every night, there has to be a build up to it in order to make it feel special ☺ idk that’s just me, I’m curious to hear what you guys think.
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WeenieHut · 41-45, M
I’m 41, been married for 17 yrs. Lucky to get one a month 🤷‍♂
Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
@WeenieHut I'd be happy with once a month. Lol
Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut are there any reasons why it’s only once a month?
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Hatt94 it doesn’t happen often then? ☹
Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
@Ashly no. Twice this year so far.
WeenieHut · 41-45, M
@Ashly it kinda comes in waves? We can go months without at times, and sometimes it can be like a constant. She gots a few mental health issues lol
Ashly · 26-30, F
@Hatt94 wow that’s sad to hear ☹ If it’s something that’s important to you she needs to realize that it’s all about compromise, intimacy is an important part of a relationship
Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut I’m sorry to hear that ☹
WeenieHut · 41-45, M
@Ashly yea, me too. Overall tho, things are pretty good ish
Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut I see room for improvement but if you’re ok with it then that’s all that matters 🤷🏻‍♀
WeenieHut · 41-45, M
@Ashly no one is ok with being sexless in a marriage lol
Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut my apologies 😅
Have you talked to her about it?
WeenieHut · 41-45, M
@Ashly only about 34 billion times, maybe I should say something else?
Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut yes you should
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Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut plan out a romantic evening, or a trip somewhere
Surprise her with flowers and something that she really likes

Make her feel special and I’m pretty sure she’d be easier to convince
WeenieHut · 41-45, M
@Ashly no way, that is exhausting! I like to keep expectations low lol
Ashly · 26-30, F
@WeenieHut woooow…. lol
Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
@Ashly doesn't always work
WeenieHut · 41-45, M
@Hatt94 nothing more frustrating than jerkin off, minus 350 bucks
Coldplay · 61-69, M
@WeenieHut Hell you are getting a lot more than me! 1xmonth would be a flood of activity.