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Ladies, would you rather your man come too fast or not be able to come at all?

Men, what about you? Not at all or too soon when having sex with your woman?
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perceptivei · 36-40, F
@AlyAngel oh, really? I didn't know some guys really aren't good at it. That's scary to think soms men really do suck at it.
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
@AlyAngel 7 kids... ur a busy person and happy.
SW-User
@AlyAngel Ha ha,,,,!!
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
Too fast is better than not at all. But plenty of guys have ed/pe issues that cannot be fixed with any sort of drugs or medication. Lifestyle, depression, anxiety, fear, phobia, etc. all play a part.

Also remember most men once they're getting on in years (40 and up) can't recover/cum multiple times in quick succession. I'm yet to meet a 40+ guy who can orgasm fully twice in an hour, yet as a woman I can cum multiple times because male and female orgasms are very different and occur for different reasons.
britanyfl2000 · 22-25, F
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@britanyfl2000 finally, someone answered. I agree.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Too fast is the better of these two choices.I love feeling men ejaculating inside my vagina.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
@perceptivei You need good knowledge of when you are ovulating to avoid getting pregnant.When your boyfriends can go more than one round the pregnancy risk really goes up.When I was ready to have children I got pregnant pretty quickly.My boyfriend and I have sex pretty much every day.We usually go three rounds.
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde Right. I track my ovulation cycle.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
@tallpowerhouseblonde Happy to help with that!
Lovingsomeone · 31-35, F
Too fast is better than not at all!
SW-User
For a while I got a bit of a thing about not being able to cum and at the time was with a wonderful woman who was very patient about the whole thing. We had great sex but I couldn’t seem to cum inside her and she would finish me off with her hand. As I said, she was patient but was missing the final ejaculation inside. I am pleased to say this soon passed over and all went back to normal but at that time I think I would have rather cum to fast as would she,..!
TexChik · F
There are ways to get past that if you have patience .
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@TexChik i know that.
If those are the only 2 options: too fast is better for me
SW-User
I was never very good at controlling it. I often came too fast which is frustrating (for both). Or sometimes it went too long which is good at first as it prolongs the pleasure (again for both) then it gets monotonous and you just desperately wishing for a climax.

These days I’d be glad to do it at all. If I did I’d probably cum almost at one.
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
Im trans and i date woman..but i also had a vectomey and i have been on hormones for awhile now. I dont want to use condom but i do i dont feel safe with the person. Its fun to cum in her if there is no risk.
SW-User
@Chelsiegirl Did the hormones affect your ability? Pardon me asking, I’ve never been in that situation, mostly only cis women these days
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
@SW-User it has a little down there. I can still have intercourse. The orgasim is much longer and powerful. It like comes in waves. I dont make much cum. I can orgaum more kften to it seems.. having breast is cool. Hurts when u walk into something. Its like a sharp pain.. in 2 years ill have my bottom surgey but ill still only date woman and tgs.
IamBack · 31-35, M
I don’t think cumminh too fast is a problem for me coz I can stay hard even after umm delivery lol

But yeah def need to shoot something
luv2fish · 61-69, M
We always make sure she comes first. Then she does her best to make me happy. She's good at it.
Sometimes i dont mi d not to cum at all cause i give her more pleasure that way
Tres13 · 51-55, M
Two strokes In,Out Jis
Tres13 · 51-55, M
Wham Bam Thank you Ma’am @perceptivei
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@Tres13 i see
Tres13 · 51-55, M
Was it good for you as it was for me @perceptivei
dale74 · M
I dont care takes me about 45 minutes to cum she normally has 3 or more organism before me.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Tough one. For me sex is about her. If I cum too fast I can cum again.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
Too soon you can always start over after a few minutes.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I want the woman to cum before I do, and in most cases the woman has already cum all over my mouth and soft beard. If I do cum before she does going down on her again will get me hard again so we can go another round, at this point I don’t mind if I don’t cum during the second round.
spice1 · M
I prefer my women cum first.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Not at all, i would go until she came
ekwalizur · 41-45, M
To hell with not at all!
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@ekwalizur i agree!
luv2fish · 61-69, M
Years ago I was on a medication that didn't completely inhibit ejaculation, but close. I could pound hard and fast for over and hour and not climax. My partner would scream in ecstasy and sweat from nearly non-stop orgasms. Very frustrating for me.
curiousGirl89 · 36-40, F
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
This might be considered "insensitive" but i think for a guy,best ejaculation is "quickie ejaculation".An unplanned,skirt up,panties down,dick in,thrust and fire is the most satisfying.Sorry girls!
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
I have always tried to hold off until my lover has had three orgasms. However some women prefer their man to come with them after their first, as their vulva becomes over-sensitive and further stimulation is unpleasant..
Dshhh · M
maybe this is not a question for me?
but i dont have to wait long, if at all,
in between. Just keep going I got good control too
so.. what does She want? thats what I want. oh yeah and My stuff too LOL
SW-User
I used to cum too fast if I hadn't had sex for a while. Now I have trouble coming at all and I still don't have it very often.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
People do realise that male "cum"isnt just a "fun"thing right?
It can cause pregnancy,yes?
cuddles1266 · 70-79, M
I would rather not come at all and make sure my partner has a good orgasm.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
What’s your answer?
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@MrBrownstone Too fast.
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Bobdale · 56-60, M
To soon .. hope for multiples!
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
Im happy if i ejaculate-job done.
Tres13 · 51-55, M
Stand By Your Man
SW-User
Smart guys,,,,,,,,,,,, always please the female first
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@SW-User right but that wasn't my question

 
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