Is sex shamed by the ego?

I’m bored with normal, or good, or whatever crap label humanity put on oppression. I’ve had an adventurous life in a multitude of ways. I don’t want to hide who I am anymore. All that I am. Sex is a huge facet. So primal, yet with our beautiful human capabilities, it can be advanced magic 😆 I’ve always had a really high sex drive, but felt ashamed of it. Shame is just over for me now and I see beauty in all things. I’m ready to open up and let the wild woman out 🖤 When you feel free to be yourself, of course you’re less interested in sex as an ego boost, it can become just as much a passion as art or writing or music. And just as expressive and shareable.

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SW-User

Yeah, but where does it really get you?

It's strange because as a rebellious teen I never once thought I'd be "that" practical person, but that really is who I have become in a lot of ways. When I'm thinking about promiscuity, I'm questioning who you will have to grow old with and who will be there for you when you truly need them to be. Another aspect to this is that I've decided I'm worth it, and that you (guys) don't get to have me if you've got nothing to give me or aren't worthwhile. You will surely go on to your next conquest and next fuck, but this shows me why I was right to be reluctant and why I was right to deem you as not good enough for me.

There is much to be said for monogamy and family life...it brings good to you, not bad. I want to be fucked all the time but I want it to be by someone who really cares about me and yes, loves me.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User of course you get to be you. For me, I’ve lived an interesting life and the thought of monogamy bores me in a sense that I’m bound to one person and can never explore outside of their world, I have to limit my curiosity and passion to constantly balance with someone. But I’d rather them be free as well. That’s not so much rebellious as it is wise hun. I’ve been married. My family is dead. When I was 22 I thought I could make life beautiful. But you have no control. Life happens. Everything changes. I didn’t think I was telling anyone how to live their life, not my style 😆

But you ask, where does it get me?

Since we’re all gonna end up dead, alone or partnered, it makes me feel alive. It puts life in my years 🖤

SW-User

@RebelFox 22 is my age :)

I suppose it all comes down to perspective and our own subjective experiences. I've found that monogamy and devoting myself to one person has been enriching for me, and there's always new things to explore with him. I feel I can have a deep and meaningful relationship with him instead of having what I consider to be superficial and passing experiences with lots of other people. I lost my parents two years ago, and it's partly because of this that I like to have a strong bond with someone. As a kid I moved places and houses a lot too. I had some other unfortunate experiences that I won't share, but...stability is something I truly crave. And when you have childeen, it's really essential.