Do you think it's wrong to like sex?

I'm not into sex or masturbation, anything sexual for myself, kinda asexual...

But for other people, I'm sex-positive.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying it. 23 years ago I was well into it.
It's good fun and safe as long as you take all the right precautions and it's all consensual.

That said, I don't think that fetishes are good. They are a spiral to something more horrid.
But good, normal sex, just go for it. 👍

I made this post cause a lot of people sited sex as a vice on another thread.

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FreddieUK · 70-79, M

The abuse of sex might be considered a vice (as with every other natural appetite) but to be a sexual being is the way we are created. "Just go for it" is not really the advice of the Bible, but if that is not a consideration, then I guess the boundaries are for the individual to determine.

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@FreddieUK What does the Bible say? =)
I've read it but I can't remember.

FreddieUK · 70-79, M

@H1raeth It fundamentally says that it's intended for the procreation of children within marriage. However, there are plenty of examples of that being broken and people still being used by God. There are other more liberal interpretations about homosexual expressions of sex, but they are controversial, to say the least. Also, most Protestant church groups are content to 'allow' sex where the purpose is not to have children but for the bonding of a husband and wife.

That's the strict summary interpretation. Please don't assume that's all that's to be said.

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@FreddieUK Okay, thanks.

I know that you're not meant to lust after people, or to "burn with passion."

FreddieUK · 70-79, M

@H1raeth When you've have the formula for not doing that, let me know. 🤣

But seriously, there's nothing wrong with enjoying looking at someone (it seems to me), but continually thinking about someone you can't have (because they are already spoken for, perhaps, or you have promised to be faithful to someone already) is a recipe for deep unhappiness.

H1raeth · 36-40, M

@FreddieUK Haha, will do.

Yeah that's a pretty sensible take to be honest.