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Do you think it's wrong to like sex?

I'm not into sex or masturbation, anything sexual for myself, kinda asexual...

But for other people, I'm sex-positive.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying it. 23 years ago I was well into it.
It's good fun and safe as long as you take all the right precautions and it's all consensual.

That said, I don't think that fetishes are good. They are a spiral to something more horrid.
But good, normal sex, just go for it. 👍

I made this post cause a lot of people sited sex as a vice on another thread.
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Nate931 · 31-35, M
Nothing wrong with liking sex.

I do think people don't take sex seriously enough. By that I mean they disregard the possibility of pregnancy, they have sex with someone they don't expect to have feelings for but then develop them later...I think sex is best with someone you care about. I've only been with one person since I was 18 and I wouldn't want it any different.

Sex does not have to be a vice. But it's inherently complicated because it can never just be about you and what you want--it involves another person and that requires additional levels of understanding and sympathy.
Nope. But I admit I listed it as a vice because I was a sex addict and had issues controlling it for a period of my life and also have a fairly high number of paraphilias. 🤷🏾 I joke about it a lot

Not ashamed of it. It happens. But in general sex is normal, healthy and pretty damn fun.
GinPanda · 26-30, F
@DancingStarGoddess I agree. I think it is a part of a healthy life. I do think like with anything you cannot let it dictate your life but as a complimentary piece it is healthy.
@GinPanda Of course.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Nah. It’s kind of a must in continuing a species. And vital in feeling more intimately connected to someone you rather enjoy.

When it starts consuming you though…to where it’s a struggle to function in everyday life without the thought or allure of it overwhelming you, that’s when the red flag could present itself. That’s when it starts to become too strong of a beast to tame for some.
robertsnj · 56-60, M
oops the poll is missing. I am in the no category. I would offer up that a lot of people in the yes or maybe category are Christians or Muslims. It is baked into much of their religious demonination that sex for pleasure is morally worng. I would be fascinated by folks into those two religions who say no, it how ok, how they reconcile their religion with sex for pleasure.

I bet you are super productive being asexual-ish. If I had a nickle of how much time I spent on the hedonism that is sexual pleasure--man I would I have probalby accomplished some things in life.
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
The abuse of sex might be considered a vice (as with every other natural appetite) but to be a sexual being is the way we are created. "Just go for it" is not really the advice of the Bible, but if that is not a consideration, then I guess the boundaries are for the individual to determine.
H1raeth · 36-40, M
@FreddieUK Okay, thanks.

I know that you're not meant to lust after people, or to "burn with passion."
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
@H1raeth When you've have the formula for not doing that, let me know. 🤣

But seriously, there's nothing wrong with enjoying looking at someone (it seems to me), but continually thinking about someone you can't have (because they are already spoken for, perhaps, or you have promised to be faithful to someone already) is a recipe for deep unhappiness.
H1raeth · 36-40, M
@FreddieUK Haha, will do.

Yeah that's a pretty sensible take to be honest.
KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F
No. It's part of life. It's natural.
Anniedlr · 31-35, F
No not at all indeed I would say it’s something to be enjoyed🙂
unregisteredhypercam4 · 22-25, M
I do agree that sex should be seen as something positive but disagree and think people can have fetishes without going crazy
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Gosh I sure hope not
Softy1 · M
I think it’s good for those who have it
BlobbyMcBlobface · 100+, M
As the song goes, if it's wrong i don't wanna be right.
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
If people didn't like it our species would die out
pdockal · 56-60, M
@FreeSpirit1

Some like it more then others !
G7J2O · M
No, why would it be?
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Sex is against my religion. It's a very small church.
H1raeth · 36-40, M
@hunkalove 😂
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
@hunkalove And not expected to last beyond one generation. 🙄
Lilnonames · F
yeah sticking your sex in a vice would be a bad fetish😉

 
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