Friday Night Is Not Alright
I had arranged a date for Friday night. Around 5pm he’d messages and I tell him I was driving into town as the last rain was 11.20 and a taxi would be too expensive. He told me it wasn’t worth it if I wasn’t drinking!! 🤬 It immediately pissed me off and I ignored several of his messages.
He then apologised guessing he’d fucked up and invited me to his. I don’t know why I did but I went (I made sure to text my friend his name and address).
At first he seemed nice. He introduces his cats. So I decide to have a drink with him. He’s heavy handed with the rum and I calculate it’s about 4 shots so around 4 hours before I can leave, 5 to be safe.
Then he starts trying to get me to drink more and making hints about staying over. He tells me it’s not his place and he’s been crashing there for a year. They are also not his cats. He’s not suppose to have women over but his flatmate is out of town.
He starts to get touchy. Taking my hand to show me around the flat. Resting his head against my shoulder. He mentions how tiny I am (I’m 5ft 2, he’s 6ft 2) and picks me up. I’m feeling really uncomfortable and I sit with my back to the arm of the sofa with my knees against my chest constantly checking my watch and cursing the fact that I was stupid enough to drink.
He tells me he has 2 kids by different mums that he doesn’t see. 🚩🚩🚩I honestly feel nothing should ever stop you seeing your kids. If a parent moves them away I’d do everything to try and track them down.
If that wasn’t bad enough the 5 year old is in care. He’s apparently not allowed to have access because he doesn’t have a fixed address. I know that’s bullshit. He would be allowed visitation rights unless there was a safeguarding issue. He has a full time job so he should get off his ass and find his own place.
If you don’t even care about your own kid then there’s no way you can love anyone else.
It’s getting close to being able to leave and he asks if I’m staying and I tell him no. He says I could stay on the sofa or just spoon with him in bed 😡 He then says I’ve got 15 minutes to chose. I tell him in that case I’m leaving now.
I start to put my shoes on and he says not if I don’t let you leave. I tell him again I’m going. He then lifts me off the floor saying he could force me to stay. My heart is beating into my throat and I tell him not to ruin a good night.
We walks me to my car and grabs my ass in a hug. As I’m driving off he texts asking if I’ve changed my mind.
I wait until morning to say I’m not interested in anything further. He’s messaged a few times saying he doesn’t want anything serious then accused me of ghosting him. I sent one last message saying it’s not ghosting if I’ve told you I don’t want to see you again.
Fuck this type of guy! 🤬
He then apologised guessing he’d fucked up and invited me to his. I don’t know why I did but I went (I made sure to text my friend his name and address).
At first he seemed nice. He introduces his cats. So I decide to have a drink with him. He’s heavy handed with the rum and I calculate it’s about 4 shots so around 4 hours before I can leave, 5 to be safe.
Then he starts trying to get me to drink more and making hints about staying over. He tells me it’s not his place and he’s been crashing there for a year. They are also not his cats. He’s not suppose to have women over but his flatmate is out of town.
He starts to get touchy. Taking my hand to show me around the flat. Resting his head against my shoulder. He mentions how tiny I am (I’m 5ft 2, he’s 6ft 2) and picks me up. I’m feeling really uncomfortable and I sit with my back to the arm of the sofa with my knees against my chest constantly checking my watch and cursing the fact that I was stupid enough to drink.
He tells me he has 2 kids by different mums that he doesn’t see. 🚩🚩🚩I honestly feel nothing should ever stop you seeing your kids. If a parent moves them away I’d do everything to try and track them down.
If that wasn’t bad enough the 5 year old is in care. He’s apparently not allowed to have access because he doesn’t have a fixed address. I know that’s bullshit. He would be allowed visitation rights unless there was a safeguarding issue. He has a full time job so he should get off his ass and find his own place.
If you don’t even care about your own kid then there’s no way you can love anyone else.
It’s getting close to being able to leave and he asks if I’m staying and I tell him no. He says I could stay on the sofa or just spoon with him in bed 😡 He then says I’ve got 15 minutes to chose. I tell him in that case I’m leaving now.
I start to put my shoes on and he says not if I don’t let you leave. I tell him again I’m going. He then lifts me off the floor saying he could force me to stay. My heart is beating into my throat and I tell him not to ruin a good night.
We walks me to my car and grabs my ass in a hug. As I’m driving off he texts asking if I’ve changed my mind.
I wait until morning to say I’m not interested in anything further. He’s messaged a few times saying he doesn’t want anything serious then accused me of ghosting him. I sent one last message saying it’s not ghosting if I’ve told you I don’t want to see you again.
Fuck this type of guy! 🤬
