Who do women think men only want two things out of sex - penetrative sex and oral sex to make them orgasm?

Remember that women have orgasms purely for their pleasure and are not necessary at all (unless perhaps indirectly for a man's benefit) for procreation. Men require orgasms for both functions. Women can have orgasm after orgasm (within limits). Men can have one then they're done (for an extended time).

Penetrative needs no explanation, but hitting the 'magic' of both man and woman climaxing at the same time is something I've never achieved. Never got that with either of my ex's

Oral sex is basically given the demeaning term 'blow job' when a man receives oral (from someone else - could be woman or man depending on preferences I guess). For a woman receiving oral it's made out to be a heavenly almost saintly experience.

Seriously, it this really all that many women think men want sex for? 8-) Sex just for those things would not be very fulfilling. I'm not sexually-typical because I'm neuro-atypical and both demi- and sapio-sexual, so I can't do sex just for the sake of sex regardless of the situation.