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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
It's curious but not surprising how varied the opinions are on oral.
Some or most seem to refuse to give or get it. Some are open to giving and getting but they serm to be unicorns.
Some women prefer just to give it a bit but are too self conscious to receive it.
And then there like you that are those that love getting it but refuse to give it.
Some people like to give and some prefer just to take.
For others maybe its a sense of power or fear of being taken advantage of, poor body image, or maybe it just says something about the state of the relationship or the physical traits of the individuals involved. If they have a bad attitude, smell bad, taste bad, are too hairy, unwashed, the nerves are not there, or there are painful memories, it's not going to be any fun.
The one thing to consider is that if one person wants it enough, they will likely look for it elsewhere or become very frustrated. You then need to decide if it's a deal breaker or not. Are you open to the relationship failing over this issue? In some socities there are other outlets but they are expensive and come with risk. You may be able to work out a deal or conditions that will overcome your or their aversion to it. For better or worse, oral communication is required.
Some or most seem to refuse to give or get it. Some are open to giving and getting but they serm to be unicorns.
Some women prefer just to give it a bit but are too self conscious to receive it.
And then there like you that are those that love getting it but refuse to give it.
Some people like to give and some prefer just to take.
For others maybe its a sense of power or fear of being taken advantage of, poor body image, or maybe it just says something about the state of the relationship or the physical traits of the individuals involved. If they have a bad attitude, smell bad, taste bad, are too hairy, unwashed, the nerves are not there, or there are painful memories, it's not going to be any fun.
The one thing to consider is that if one person wants it enough, they will likely look for it elsewhere or become very frustrated. You then need to decide if it's a deal breaker or not. Are you open to the relationship failing over this issue? In some socities there are other outlets but they are expensive and come with risk. You may be able to work out a deal or conditions that will overcome your or their aversion to it. For better or worse, oral communication is required.