Is ANR/ABF a kink best suited for slower cities?

@FoxyGoddess I agree, but the distribution isnt the same for like other kinks. In this area youd find a lot of women post for hookups / one night stands, but barely find anyone posting for ANR/ABF. That at least to me was really interesting. Maybe Ill take up a project

@JerseyMike4Milk ANR often requires you to develop a relationship over a long period of time than, say, a hook up or one night stand. ANR is usually about the bonding relationship between the female and the person suckling and is more affectionate than just sex. So there's perhaps a bigger, more intense emotional investment in that particular kink.

@Richard65 This is true. While there are milkmaids who are basically hookups, that is not the actual nature of ANR as I understand it.

@FoxyGoddess agreed. I've never experienced an ANR with any female, but I've spoken to women who are interested in it and they've explained how it's about the nurturing/bonding aspect that they crave, rather than anything overtly sexual. It's a relationship, not an act of sexual gratification.

@Richard65 Yes. I know for men, it is often sexual, but for me, it is more about caring for someone as they are vulnerable and tender and wanting to spend time with me in mutual closeness. Like a cuddle, but more.

@FoxyGoddess I love that. That's exactly what ANR is about. Affection more than sex. Bonding over suckling, more than sexual release. The nurturing aspect is mutual between both parties. When you connect like that it is a beautiful relationship.