Is ANR/ABF a kink best suited for slower cities?

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Yes for sure

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I am a curious statistician as much as I love ANR/ABF. Unfortunately in the New York / New Jersey area, I barely see any posts for anr/abf as a kink. Its mostly in central america , southern or western america. Do you think you need more time at hand or a slower lifestyle to have more

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Chiefjustice · 46-50, M

This is a very unique kink, i suppose, and finding partner is extremely difficult.
Depending on what the person is after as it can be get complicated with needs or wants and keeping it objectively focused.

FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F

I'm sure having time helps. 🤷‍♀

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Richard65 · M

@FoxyGoddess agreed. I've never experienced an ANR with any female, but I've spoken to women who are interested in it and they've explained how it's about the nurturing/bonding aspect that they crave, rather than anything overtly sexual. It's a relationship, not an act of sexual gratification.

FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F

@Richard65 Yes. I know for men, it is often sexual, but for me, it is more about caring for someone as they are vulnerable and tender and wanting to spend time with me in mutual closeness. Like a cuddle, but more.

Richard65 · M

@FoxyGoddess I love that. That's exactly what ANR is about. Affection more than sex. Bonding over suckling, more than sexual release. The nurturing aspect is mutual between both parties. When you connect like that it is a beautiful relationship.

BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

I don't think it matters where you live and where you're from

JackDaniels · 46-50, M

@MsSwan

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