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SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
Hey, if this actually happened to you, I'm sorry to hear that. I only phrase it that way because of the group you posted this in.
If this is, as it seems, purely a fetish thing, Seriously go [REDACTED] yourself. People like you are the primary reason I don't feel like I can talk about my own experiences when I need to for catharsis. It makes it where IF i were to, people would either fetishize it themselves, and I'd get all kinds of creeps or people would assume I'm fetishizing it and not only would I get all kinds of creeps fetishizing my trauma, but I'd ALSO be seen as one of those creeps. Meaning all the crap I need to get off my chest stays roiling around in the maelstrom of my head.
have whatever fetish you want, but realize how you affect those who actually and traumatically went through it.
If, big IF, i've misjudged you (I didn't) I apologize
If this is, as it seems, purely a fetish thing, Seriously go [REDACTED] yourself. People like you are the primary reason I don't feel like I can talk about my own experiences when I need to for catharsis. It makes it where IF i were to, people would either fetishize it themselves, and I'd get all kinds of creeps or people would assume I'm fetishizing it and not only would I get all kinds of creeps fetishizing my trauma, but I'd ALSO be seen as one of those creeps. Meaning all the crap I need to get off my chest stays roiling around in the maelstrom of my head.
have whatever fetish you want, but realize how you affect those who actually and traumatically went through it.
If, big IF, i've misjudged you (I didn't) I apologize