Getting into her pants.... I wish !

@SW-User A little, but I'm still very frightened by doing it. Been a lot of years since I had any sexual experiences except just with myself. I don't rate the years with my last ex as memorable at all sexually.

@zonavar68 you would need to talk and be honest.. and it'd be fine, an experience.. :)
But I get your stress. Sometimes it just take the right person...but then being too picky maybe won't get you anywhere..

@SW-User I think every adult gets 'fussy' about what they want in life due to past experiences and how your relationship(s) has(have) worked out so that as we get into mature age (40 and up) our focus is very narrowed. I am a package deal with my 5 y/o daughter and anyone I date or get close to is expected to accept that if a person wants me in their life then my daughter is part of the equation.