what kind of 'sexual' are you? Do you understand what it means to ask that?

If I got asked that question I would probably not be able to give a definitive answer.

I feel I'm asexual and sapiosexual and mostly heterosexual but I've always wondered what it's like to be bisexual or something more open. I've only had female sex partners but only also had very few (5 perhaps in my whole life with any sort of meaning, and I don't ever do nsa/ons sex).

I find sex and sexuality very confusing and difficult to understand. I consider myself sapiosexual but at the same time I think I'm probably in the greysexual area since sexual attraction for me is extremely rare or impossible as I can't do it as a pure sex-focused thing.

A lot of other people believe that they totally understand their sexuality and have a really firm handle on how to describe theirs.

So how do your describe yours and do you feel you are totally understanding it, or are you confused and lost-at-sea like I feel I am about it? Or somewhere in the middle?