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Caned4doz · 61-69, M
I don’t want to get into any debates about whether corporal punishment is bad, abusive, etc. it is too easy to criticise the past based on today’s perspectives and attitudes.
I got the strap at home and the cane at school. Speaking only from my perspective, I benefited long and short term. Short-term, it provided me with closure for my misguided actions and misbehaviours.
Longer term, I came to appreciate that my actions had consequences and that I had to learn from my mistakes and take heed of the teachings afforded to me. That has stayed with me all my adult life. I’m not perfect, I make mistakes and can still be unwisely wilful at times, but I have learned the meaning of accountability and responsibility.
Yes, cp, mostly the cane still has a valid role in my life.
I got the strap at home and the cane at school. Speaking only from my perspective, I benefited long and short term. Short-term, it provided me with closure for my misguided actions and misbehaviours.
Longer term, I came to appreciate that my actions had consequences and that I had to learn from my mistakes and take heed of the teachings afforded to me. That has stayed with me all my adult life. I’m not perfect, I make mistakes and can still be unwisely wilful at times, but I have learned the meaning of accountability and responsibility.
Yes, cp, mostly the cane still has a valid role in my life.
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Caned4doz · 61-69, M
@smacked30D Indeed I do!
chikki · 70-79, M
I agree. I do think it is important that the boy is required to take it on his bare bottom. This adds greatly to the punishment and also allows the caner to see where the strokes are landing and it is not badly marking the bottom.
BethA · F
Idk about a cane but my grandma uses a switch n you never forget it
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Sharon · F
It works just as well on girls too.
naughtyone123 · 51-55, M
@Sharon Did your behavior improve? Did you get it from the school or your parents?
Sharon · F
@naughtyone123 I was more careful to avoid being caught again, but I wasn't always successful. I got it from my teachers, parents and friends' parents.
naughtyone123 · 51-55, M
@Sharon Same here. I was a lot more careful about getting caught. Still got it though. LOL
skimpyboy · 56-60, M
A bare bottom caning never did me any harm in my youth.
johnstretton2 · 61-69, M
@skimpyboy I have seen it do many boys a lot of good.
chikki · 70-79, M
@johnstretton2 it did do many a lot of good and would do some a lot of good today if it was done sharply across the bottom
Strictgram · 70-79, C
It worked well for the English for hundreds of years. Now canes are found mostly in UK museums.
@Strictgram Would it be accurate to say that the cane is somewhat unique in that the punishment can be titrated or adjusted extremely precisely?
Thus, a sentence of three strokes is VERY different from a sentence of just one stroke. Almost all of the SW contributors who felt the cane at school recount the precise number of strokes they received. Often they recall where a particular stroke was placed. The necessarily overlapping diagonal strokes created extremely accurate memories.
Such precision memories suggest that it is more than just the amount of pain involved. It is most likely the combination of the intensity plus its being concentrated in a straight line with a relatively easy to characterize location.
Other implements are able to induce similar levels of discomfort and to do so with the same efficiency but the memory they leave is rarely so specific and so linked to a particular location on the bottom. In short, cane strokes stand out individually where as slipper, hairbrush, and bathbrush strokes almost instantly overlap and blur together.
In a sense the cane (or its natural equivalent the fresh green switch) is irreplaceable.
Thus, a sentence of three strokes is VERY different from a sentence of just one stroke. Almost all of the SW contributors who felt the cane at school recount the precise number of strokes they received. Often they recall where a particular stroke was placed. The necessarily overlapping diagonal strokes created extremely accurate memories.
Such precision memories suggest that it is more than just the amount of pain involved. It is most likely the combination of the intensity plus its being concentrated in a straight line with a relatively easy to characterize location.
Other implements are able to induce similar levels of discomfort and to do so with the same efficiency but the memory they leave is rarely so specific and so linked to a particular location on the bottom. In short, cane strokes stand out individually where as slipper, hairbrush, and bathbrush strokes almost instantly overlap and blur together.
In a sense the cane (or its natural equivalent the fresh green switch) is irreplaceable.
Derrick70 · 56-60, M
I agree 100 persent.
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Caned4doz · 61-69, M
@Narborough99 Did he not tell you to use the toilet before your punishment? I expect the acidity of the urine made the cane welts sting.
My housemaster at school was an accurate caner and he also caned hard. He never gave less than four strokes, but usually it was six or up to twelve. Not on the bare of course, but sometimes strokes would land on top of others…they were agony.
My housemaster at school was an accurate caner and he also caned hard. He never gave less than four strokes, but usually it was six or up to twelve. Not on the bare of course, but sometimes strokes would land on top of others…they were agony.
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smacked30D · 70-79, M
What a good idea !
Sharon · F
@smacked30D A very bad idea if it's only used with boys. Girls would misbehave even more just to flaunt their immunity.
smacked30D · 70-79, M
@Sharon I know you would misbehave, Sharon , you always were a naughty girl !
Tugasaki · 61-69, M
As a adult I find spankings very important to myself as well, it centers me, allows me to feel like a child,since I only got spanked once as a kid,I missed out on the proper ways of discipline.
chubbysteve99 · 56-60, M
I totally agree sir