I Get Spanked By My Husband As Part Of Domestic Discipline
Has Anyone used quiet implements? What were they? Also how do you decide how bad a spanking us woman get? All questions from my husband.
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Kelsec · 31-35, M
johnsonjelena45 is right, the quiet ones are often the most painful. Mostly because all the noise comes from smacking an area of the bottom so quiet implements usually strike a smaller surface area but that means all the pain concentrates to one spot instead of spreading over your bottom.
Canes - afaik incredibly painful, good for a handful of swats but will leave marks and stings like hellfire.
Switch - much less painful than a cane, but tends to leave welts that will itch if you dont apply some kind of care product.
Could try taking a longer wooden spoon and using the handle portion, its stiff so it wont be as harsh as a cane and it dosent "smack" so it wont make much noise.
Severity depends on the spankee's pain tolerance and the infractions. To figure that out usually takes a lot of trial and error, patience, communication, and a fair amount of judgment from the spanker to get perfect. Some people will set a certain number of swats depending on the infraction, others will go until a specific emotional response is triggered (like crying and tears or not resisting, etc etc), and others will spank for a set amount of time. All of that is up to you and your husband to decide what works best for you.
Canes - afaik incredibly painful, good for a handful of swats but will leave marks and stings like hellfire.
Switch - much less painful than a cane, but tends to leave welts that will itch if you dont apply some kind of care product.
Could try taking a longer wooden spoon and using the handle portion, its stiff so it wont be as harsh as a cane and it dosent "smack" so it wont make much noise.
Severity depends on the spankee's pain tolerance and the infractions. To figure that out usually takes a lot of trial and error, patience, communication, and a fair amount of judgment from the spanker to get perfect. Some people will set a certain number of swats depending on the infraction, others will go until a specific emotional response is triggered (like crying and tears or not resisting, etc etc), and others will spank for a set amount of time. All of that is up to you and your husband to decide what works best for you.