He needs me ... dominance and the lack there of...what now??

MizzO · 2023-10-08T00:39:38-04:00

BDSM - He needs me ... dominance and the lack there of...what now?? Yes. He said he needs me. Willing... (3 replies).

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Let him have it knowing he is not my type

Deny him because he is not my type

Let him have it and try to make it work

Deny him but don't say why so that I don't hurt his feelings

Give in and just have my fun using him. This is exactly what he is signing up for and he knows it

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Yes. He said he needs me. Willing to beg for me. Willing to give for nothing in return. I told him no thank you. Was curious as I shot his shit down...but I like to play with my food. And he likes to let me ......so what now?

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MizzO · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy I am thoroughly annoyed with the idea of training a "Dom". I am not that patient with someone who lacks the disposition. There is a difference between cultivation and conformation.

SomeMichGuy · M

Don't play with him. Be honest with him.

If you really feel the he is going to be unable to rise to your stated need for dominance, talk with him about this. Tell him EXACTLY what you need and do not see.

you might be able to train him to be the Dom you need, because of his desire to please you...he might be a Dom who won't abuse you in the way a Sadistic "Dom" might...

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