hubby and i went to a swingers party for halloween and now his mad cause a guy we meet there is texting me does he have the right to be mad ??
41-45, C
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Rabbit420 · M
A lot of people think this is a good and fun idea until they do it. Most men aren't "mentally geared" to seeing their wife give another man a blowjob or see another man slide his penis into their wife's vagina. A lot of woman aren't geared to seeing another woman giving their husband a blowjob or see her husband's pelvis slamming up against another woman's ass as he drives his penis deep into her. It may sound like a good idea at the time, but most people aren't willing to accept the consequences or how jealous their spouse may be!!!
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Rabbit420 My first ex tried to 'fix' our failing relationship 16 yrs ago (I left her a year later after she cheated on me) by suggesting a threesome with another man I had never met. I considered it for several milliseconds before feeling a massive ick and declining. That's the one and only time in my life I've been sexually presented with something kinky outside of a standard 'couple' romantic space. Never had threesomes, never been to sex parties. Single men don't get invited to those things - only single women and couples.
Rabbit420 · M
@Slavem Sorry to hear about your divorce. As I said, the average person's brain, albeit consciously or subconsciously can't or won't accept the fact their partner is having sex with someone else. There is also the fact of attention. Is she giving him more attention because it's a new experience? Is she giving him more attention because he's got a bigger cock? Is she paying more attention to him because he's a better lover? I talked to one guy that said he was fine with it until his wife started paying more attention to the other guy's cock than his. When he saw his wife sucking the other guy's cock like she had never sucked his it was the end of it and their marriage!!
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Text him back "Come over right away, I need you" and then see what happens.
bobhall5868 · 61-69, M
Pretzel · 70-79, M
Careful what you wish for...
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SharingKayla · 61-69, M
Damn, I would be so proud of my wife if she got a return text! That being said I prefer more to share than to swing. :P
janessa7255635 · 41-45, C
@SharingKayla share in what way ?
SharingKayla · 61-69, M
@janessa7255635 My excitement is her with other men, not me with other women.
NaughtyPickle · M
No he should be fucking you !
pdockal · 56-60, M
Hmmmmmm
Does the swinging happen outside the event ?????
Does the swinging happen outside the event ?????
ekwalizur · 41-45, M
Do fictional characters have rights?
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Yes he has a right to be mad. What happens at a swingers club should stay there. Unless you guys have an open relationship, that's different.
Lostlostlost · 56-60, M
Human nature being what it is, it’s best to have a separate phone number for your party guests. Set boundaries and both agree to adhere to them.
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ironborn · M
If you're going to participate in that lifestyle, surely it would be sensible to set rules and boundaries first?
ironborn · M
@janessa7255635 but he's pissed, did you have a rule about contact post the event?
GentlemanPirate · 51-55, M
@janessa7255635 that is different then, I wonder why this guy ?