I need help with my bfs kink
Hes into spit play but the thought of someone spitting on me in anyway makes me wanna hurl every time. Idk what to do because hes making me feel like i dont accept him.
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
Nobody has to accept another person's kink.
PERIOD.
That being said - it sounds like kind of a deal breaker for you both.
If he absolutely has to have that to stay in the relationship and you can't give it - then he has to decide whether to stay or go.
On your side - you have to decide if you can deal with the spit...if you just can't then that's valid.
Bottom line: If he has to have it to stay in the relationship and you just can't do it - sounds like the decision has made itself.
Nobody should have to go without something they crave - and nobody should do anything that makes them feel bad.
And nobody should passive aggressively put the blame on the other person for not sharing a kink.
PERIOD.
That being said - it sounds like kind of a deal breaker for you both.
If he absolutely has to have that to stay in the relationship and you can't give it - then he has to decide whether to stay or go.
On your side - you have to decide if you can deal with the spit...if you just can't then that's valid.
Bottom line: If he has to have it to stay in the relationship and you just can't do it - sounds like the decision has made itself.
Nobody should have to go without something they crave - and nobody should do anything that makes them feel bad.
And nobody should passive aggressively put the blame on the other person for not sharing a kink.