For men. Is sex as enjoyable with middle age women?

This is not an invitation but purely a question. Do men really enjoy the feeling of sex with women over 40 as much as younger women.
I was on a forum on marriage and several men of seemingly various ages said that men if being totally honest could never enjoy older lady bits as much as younger. I was surprised that several men liked and commented their agreement.
They listed wetness and texture.
They argued that a woman's sexual capital lowered exponentially after mid 30s but men did not decline. This was to say that women cannot expect equal marriage partners if they do not exploit their sexual capital at a young age.

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Discotheque · M

As you’re asking purely about physical enjoyment, I think whether or not a woman has had children is perhaps more relevant than her age. Also, what a woman does with her body, especially her hands and mouth, during sex, is probably at least as important to the pleasure of the male as the condition of her body (within reason, eg if she’s very much overweight this doesn’t apply).

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Discotheque Is very overweight physically less enjoyable? I can't see how it would be unless she is 300 lbs and logistics are an issue.

Discotheque · M

@REMsleep for me , yes very overweight would be very much a turn off. Toned flesh is very much more appealing to the touch than rolls of fat.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Discotheque lol

Discotheque · M

@REMsleep why lol? I’m being serious, what’s funny about that?

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Discotheque Its just funny. You said "flesh"
I also pictured rolls of fat but to each his own

Discotheque · M

@REMsleep ok fair enough. Emotional intimacy makes an enormous difference to how satisfying and pleasurable sex is for me but you stressed that your question was only about physical elements.