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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
It's a delicate subject, because I find most women to be super insecure about their looks in general and bodies specifically. There's someone interested in EVERY body type, and yet we shouldn't send out the message that being unhealthy is OK(in extreme circumstances). I married a plus-size woman years ago, so I was front-and-center for the struggle. It was always "as long as you're healthy" but the psychological/self-image takes a toll as well.
MntoNc · 36-40, M
@uncalled4 people have control of their weight! We act like people cant control the food in their mouth or their lifestyle. Short MEN on the other hand, have no control over that. (I'm 6'2 so i got lucky) bald men have no control over hair loss so lets quit with all the excuses and nonsense. A woman's ONE job for men is to be good looking, and theyll get scooped up by a man real quick. A man has multiple jobs - be in shape, made good money, be a provider, be a protecter a leader, etc. And if a woman cant do the very basic thing of controlling weight. Thats an issue