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Hyping up women about the perks of being taken care of by men is a perfect way to raise greedy, selfish, and self centered girls, only for them to realize later in life that it wasn’t worth it. That all those advantages could just as easily be given to someone else.. That something was missing. And that it wasn’t nearly as fulfilling as it once seemed.

Shallow and short-lived are two brothers who never part ways.

Generally, when we humans act on our own greed or selfishness, we become even more vulnerable to being victimized. Why? It’s a cognitive bias , a tunnel vision and the paradox of hedonism...We become so focused on getting what we want that we fail to see the contract we’ve signed, often unwittingly. Whether through emotional manipulation or financial schemes, the myopic pursuit of gain blinds us to the hidden obligations we’re accumulating.

If there were even a bit of acknowledgment of this role in creating these dynamics, maybe there’d be a better chance at reversing the damage. But after years of being conditioned to stay passive, any hint of personal responsibility feels like chasing a ghost. And sometimes you can only see ghosts if you're soon to join them. And by then, it is a -good-for-nothing realization.




Painting is Ary Scheffer's. Faust and Mephistopheles (1848).
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SUPERVlXEN · F Best Comment
Why allow anyone else take care of own happiness? I prefer being my own responsible care taker and not be codependent on others.
Miram · 31-35, F
@SUPERVlXEN

That very much sits at the core of the solution. When we own our happiness, we also own our sadness and our aloneness.

I think from an evolutionary perspective and for collective survival reasons, such ownership is seen as a threat by society and is eradicated early on. It is too scary to be allowed to flourish.

You're full of wisdom and this can also be applied in other roles in life to an extent.
SW-User
Nice history lesson 😊
It's obvious you want the next Cosby, Epstein and Weinstein to groom her, or you'd have a welfare system. You fed them to the ownership. LolZ, it's okay! Bipartisan.
Miram · 31-35, F
@Roundandroundwego

I have told you before not everyone here is from the US. You also do not have to stick your projections at everything you read. Tend to your addiction if you truly care for the world. It is wasting away your brain and you waste too much time and energy attacking people online.
@Miram the economy will use your gals. Anita Hill, Monica Lewinsky, - interns who knew how to kneel! Before the money. Cosby will be incarnated endlessly to make the deals.
Miram · 31-35, F
@Roundandroundwego You have problems you should be focusing on.

Good luck

 
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