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It seems that Conspiracy theorists are to be humoured/pitied and treated with empathy [I Hate Conspiracy Theories]

A long read and perhaps not for those who believe in conspiracy theories, but interesting and useful for those who might have to deal with these poor souls psychologically.

How Should You Talk To A Loved One Who Believes In Conspiracy Theories?


Conspiracy theories have surged over the last few years, as we’ve frequently reported. One 2018 study, for example, found that 60% of British people believed in a conspiracy theory. Meanwhile, the rise of QAnon in America has been particularly alarming.

It’s easy to dismiss conspiracy theorists — but this is not a productive way to tackle the issue. Instead, researchers are exploring why people get sucked into such belief systems, even at the expense of personal relationships. This work can help us understand why conspiracies spread, and provide some useful guidance for talking to loved ones who may have fallen for a conspiracy theory.

Why do people believe in conspiracy theories?

There are a number of reasons someone may be attracted to a conspiracy theory, often related to frustrated psychological needs.

“The first of these needs are epistemic, related to the need to know the truth and have clarity and certainty” explains Karen M. Douglas, Professor of Social Psychology at the University of Kent. “The other needs are existential, which are related to the need to feel safe and to have some control over things that are happening around us, and social, which are related to the need to maintain our self-esteem and feel positive about the groups that we belong to.”

So, for instance, if someone is anxious about the pandemic and feels out of control, they may be drawn to theories that suggest it is false, satisfying their existential needs. If they are frustrated about a particularly political situation, they may start exploring apparently clear-cut solutions to unanswerable questions, satisfying their epistemic needs.

There are also numerous risk factors related to conspiratorial thinking: conspiracy theories can be fuelled by a desire to feel special or political apathy, for example. People with lower levels of critical thinking are also more likely to believe in conspiracy theories, as Stephan Lewandowsky, co-author of a recent Conspiracy Theory Handbook and Chair in Cognitive Psychology at the University of Bristol, explains.

Those who endorse conspiracy theories are “usually people who believe that intuition is a better way to know the truth than data — people who think their gut feeling is telling them what to believe and who don’t need or want evidence to make a decision,” he says. “They don’t have a healthy level of scepticism.”

Conspiracy theories, by their nature, are also “self-sealing”, meaning that evidence can’t be used to refute them — one of the reasons they are so hard to counter. “The absence of any evidence is taken to be evidence for the theory”, Lewandowsky explains. “To give you one example, there was someone claiming on YouTube last year that Anthony Fauci was personally directing money into a lab in Wuhan. When the interviewer said there was no evidence, her reply was ‘see, that’s how good the cover-up is. There’s no evidence because they cover it up so well’.”

How to talk to somebody who believes in conspiracy theories

In an ideal world, we would prevent conspiracy theories from taking root in the first place. As Douglas and her colleague Daniel Jolley note in their study on the anti-vaccination movement, “inoculation” can prevent the influence of conspiracy theories to begin with.

They found that anti-conspiracy arguments increased intention to vaccinate a child when presented before conspiracy theories. But once these conspiracies were established, they were much more difficult to correct, even with arguments that were factual and seemed logical.

So talking to somebody before they become immersed in the world of conspiracy theories could be a way of preventing it altogether — something Lewandowsky and other authors refer to as “prebunking”. As David Robson wrote for The Psychologist last year, this isn’t just a case of presenting new information — rather, it’s about encouraging people to think critically, arming them with techniques to protect against misinformation. (The “Bad News” game, developed by University of Cambridge researchers, is one example of an intervention oriented around critical thinking.)

Dispelling a conspiracy theory once it’s entrenched, however, is not an easy task. “When people believe something so strongly, it’s difficult to change their minds,” Douglas says. “People are very good at selecting and interpreting information that seems to confirm what they already believe, and to reject or misinterpret information that goes against those beliefs.”

But as academic Jovan Byford writes in The Conversation, “underpinning conspiracy theories are feelings of resentment, indignation and disenchantment about the world”. So it’s important to understand the emotions that might be behind someone’s false beliefs, and to try and empathise with them.

One study published in Personality and Individual Differences earlier this year found that those espousing COVID-19 conspiracy theories were more likely to experience anxiety, while another found that many conspiracy theorists also felt that they had little control over their lives or the political situations they found themselves in.

Douglas points out that people believing in conspiracies may feel “confused, worried and alienated”. It would be counterproductive, therefore, to behave in a hostile or ridiculing way towards them. “This just dismisses their views and might alienate them even further and push them further towards conspiracy theories,” she says. “It’s important to keep calm and listen.” “The whole thing is about empathy,” agrees Lewandowsky. “Ridiculing people doesn’t help — and there is evidence to suggest that you shouldn’t do that.”

As anyone who has had a strained family conversation about politics will attest, it can be hard not to respond in a combative manner if you fundamentally disagree with the way somebody sees the world. But research from Harvard Business School, published in Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, suggests that being receptive might be the way forward instead.

The team, led by Mike Yeomans, argues that “conversational receptiveness” is key to de-escalating conflict: if you talk to someone in a way that indicates you’re receptive to their views and beliefs, they’re more likely to be persuaded by yours.

Simple phrases like “I understand that…” or “What you’re saying is…” could therefore bridge the gap between you and somebody with entirely different views — and even if this doesn’t mean they disavow a conspiracist belief, it could help a relationship remain friendly and non-antagonistic.

Power and purpose

As Lewandowsky points out, empowering people may also help to combat conspiratorial thinking. As we’ve seen, belief in conspiracy theories is closely linked to feelings of powerlessness — so it follows that instilling a sense of control could help ward off conspiracism.

On a personal level, people can be empowered through interventions that encourage analytic thinking and that remind them of times they were in control. In one study, for example, participants who were asked to recall a situation in which they were in control were less likely to believe in a conspiracy theory than those asked to recall a situation in which they were out of control. Such approaches may help you get through to someone you care about.

“One thing that can be done is to restore people’s sense of control,” Lewandowsky says. “One of the reasons people become conspiracy theorists is because they feel they’ve lost control of their lives and they’re afraid — that’s one of the reasons why a pandemic will trigger more of this thinking, because people have lost control of their lives.”

“So that’s one indirect way of getting at it — don’t try to talk someone out of it, but make them feel good about being in charge of their lives. Then they may gradually give up, because they don’t need it anymore.”

This isn’t to say that it will always be possible to disabuse someone of their beliefs. “The hardcore believers who are really down the rabbit hole… they are extremely difficult to reach,” Lewandowsky says. It’s also important to protect your own wellbeing when having conversations that may be frustrating or upsetting. But treating people who believe in conspiracy theories with empathy and calmness may be the first step towards a productive conversation.

https://digest.bps.org.uk/2021/07/06/how-should-you-talk-to-a-loved-one-who-believes-in-conspiracy-theories/
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Longpatrol · 31-35, M
You basically need to treat these folk like special needs children.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Longpatrol I know.. yes we should treat them with kindness.. I will go back and revise my reply to someone else on here :P
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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Angel966 Ahh but that's the point isn't it you poor soul, (am I being empathic enough here??? ) the thoughts and opinions AREN'T yours.. are they.. you get them from conspiracists.. who have no evidence to back their crackpot ideas and false information.. bless you... go have a lie down and rest that brain cell a while
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Obviously if you’re not part of their groupthink you have a mental problem. Oddly, the same crowd who claim they are the champions of “diversity” and “tolerance” clearly are intolerant of your different opinion. Ironic or hypocritical? You make the call. Communists have a history of incarcerating those who disagreed with their groupthink into mental institutions where they were experimented on. @Angel966
chrisCA · M
I just think they are bored with normal life.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@chrisCA So they make up a fantasy world :P
chrisCA · M
@Adaydreambeliever I think so. Just like some people wish that supernatural beings were real.
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HannahSky · F
[quote]People with lower levels of critical thinking[/quote]
There's also a false sense superiority and power. They know something other people don't. They feel falsely smarter than nonbelievers. It's a lot like the maga people. Suddenly you know something, have a false sense of power, and know things others don't. Information you consume is limited but reinforced by a small group that stays in the same loop.
There are no conspiracies. Julius Cesar believed that too.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@stratosranger Tell me more...
Roman senators conspired to murder Cesar. And they did. @Adaydreambeliever
My theory is that people THINK too little, SAY too much and throw around mindless labels like CONSPIRACY THEORIST

all over the place

when they can't be fucking BOTHERED to TRY to understand the issues

Hope that helps.

Sometimes people just get paranoid though

and more often its another REAL "JFK coverup", we never DID solve the FIRST one lol
Who even cares anymore?

u know??

later..
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@Elevatorpitches uh huh... so you reject the widespread research and evidence, not to mention the reasoned debate and explanation of the critical debate and examination of critical thinking, (perhaps all those long meaningful words were too much for you?) and prefer instead to jump on the bandwagon of.. I read it on a conspiracy site and they said that if there's no evidence to prove the conspiracy then this means that it's a cover up.. As the article said, that's what the conspiracy plebs do.. You fell into the trap well :)
What's hard for you people to understand is that actually, as the evidence always shows.. the opposition to conspiracy theories DO think, deeply, they research, they study.. while the conspiracy theorists have no evidence... soo.. but still as we know the conspiracy theorists don't bother with evidence and fact.. lol QED
I'm gonna just keep on laughing at conspiracy theorists! For your own amusement check out this ancient 2016 conspiracy list, all false, all forgotten in the stampede to spread new conspiracy theories...

Birthers
Death panels
Jade Helm conspiracy
FEMA camps conspiracy
Benghazi
Ebola (Obama was bringing it to the US, didn't happen)
Man made climate change deniers
Gun confiscation
Martial law
Hillary will be indicted
Trickle down economics (it only helps the rich)
Obama founded ISIS (it came about during the Bush administration)
Pizzagate
Mexico built a wall to keep out Guatemalans
Sharia law (not one case on Sharia law, we also don't use the 10 commandments )
Sweden's rape crisis
In person voter fraud
Hillary sold uranium (URANIUM WAS NOT SOLD TO RUSSIA)
Seth Rich conspiracy theory
Trump lies
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