There are too many people who used to be friends with me, pretended to care about me, spoke on the phone with me and now barely acknowledge my existence. I thought they just got busy with their own lives but seeing how much time they spend here now they’re not too busy, just simply not interested anymore.
It’s a shit realisation and I just hurt myself with it every time I visit this place.
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Friendships require a lot of mutual engagement and initiative in order to maintain them. I don't know the details of anything that's happening, but make sure you're putting that in on your end. You're a very pleasant lady, and I think people do like you. People get busy, they forget, maybe they misjudge your level of interest sometimes, and sometimes they just grow apart. That doesn't reflect on you, just means you need to either make new ones or try and reconnect with others that you've fallen out of touch with.
