People think they can just birth human beings unto this world, and stop being parents at some magical age and live in lala land

Yep that’s my sister. She doesn’t care about her teenage kids at all. Never checks about their grades, never goes to a parent’s reunion, never teaches them about dangers, drugs, sex education and all that. It’s like they’re roommates. The other relatives such as me , my parents and my brother have to do all the basic teaching on how to be a decent human, and that’s when we can , because we don’t live close , so it’s just when we visit them or when they visit us that we can interact more. Thank goodness their father is kinda decent and tries to discipline them but they only see him on the weekends.